Im a pretty average guy. Normal non crazy type. No stds or drugs or convictions. Not fat or fugly or whimpy lol. Also, im definitely big enough to be the bull. Im really more of a swinger. But i prefer to swing separately. Where im usually not even in the same building. But the minute you say swingers people assume you mean going to a swingers party. Who knows what a person might pick up at one of those lol. No offense to u swing party people. Just not my thang. Oh and no cream pies for me. Thats both dangerous and disgusting lol.